Mas Yus Health. Not all people willing to open up about sexual problems. Even the people closest ones, are still reluctant to discuss sexual problems.
If you do not want to open yourself to the nearest person or a therapist, try to judge yourself. Here are five signs according to the author of Secrets of Better Sex, Joel D. Block that could be a reference if you need sex therapy:
• Often a fight with your partner about sex. If you often quarreled about sex, you should be careful. Whether it's a matter of how or position when having sex, a place for sex, and others.
• Often avoid solicitation of couples making love. If you often avoid or even reject the invitation a couple to have sex with a excuse reluctant and so on, but still excited when watching porn, be cautious.
• Feeling very disappointed to be sex. If you feel disappointed or even frustrated about sex with a partner, be cautious.
• Not able to discuss with partner about sex. Communication is very important in a relationship, including sex. If you are unable to discuss any problems or sexual desires with your partner, be careful. Because the ideal is that you and your partner can communicate about sex.
• molester. If you or couples seeking sexual gratification outside, be wary. A healthy relationship should not be interspersed with infidelity.
If any of these signs have in yourself, you should start looking for solutions. If more than one such sign is in yourself, probably better to seek help for a third person to help your sexual problem.
