Mas Yus Health. Everyone has a dark side, including in sexual fantasizing. Research shows that sexual intercourse by way of "forced" ranks first sexual fantasies that often do women.
Fantasy is a form of mechanism (coping mechanism) with a road running away from the fact or condition which can not happen in the real world into a world that allows such conditions materialize.
This type of sexual fantasy is very diverse, there is fantasize having sex with former boyfriend and idol or sex in public places. However, it turns out quite a lot of women who libido awakened every time imagining himself forced sex or rape.
Having sex with coercion, according to a study in 2009, is a type of fantasy that is often done. Other studies have shown, a third of women admitted to imagine a man forcing himself to make love could make her passion burn. Why?
Dr. Hernando Chaves, clinical sexologists from California, United States, say, by imagining yourself being raped, they actually want to feel under the domination of men or forced to submit. Some are doing it because you want to feel a crazy man to himself and eager to make love with him.
The experts also said the fact there are psychological reasons behind the sexual fantasy, which is responding to past trauma.
"Basically, there are no women who want to be raped in the real world. Rape is nonseksual experiences and forms of violence," said Chavez.
Therefore, according to Chavez, he raped a woman who fantasize really wanted to feel himself under duress or sexual experience safely sadomasokis but because only in the mind.
Sexual fantasies are also often involve a man who preferred or partner so that they can control their own limitations and be more "real" imagination. Most women keep their own fantasy, but there is also an attempt to make it happen with a partner.
"It should be remembered that to do directly with the fantasy is very different. In addition, not all men can understand the fantasy," he said.
